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This website is a memorial to the life of US Army Spc. David J. Lane 20, of Emporia, Kansas.

David was assigned to the 2nd Battalion, 16th Infantry Regiment, 4th Infantry Brigade Combat Team, 1st Infantry Division, Fort Riley, Kansas and died September 4, 2007 in Baghdad of wounds sustained from an improvised explosive device.

"David was the greatest friend of all, and the bravest man I will EVER know..." - Joshua Berlongieri





"A boy is a magical creature - you can lock him out of your workshop, but you can't lock him out of your heart..."
- Allen Beck







Hundreds of dewdrops to greet the dawn,
Hundreds of bees in the purple clover,
Hundreds of butterflies on the lawn,
But only one mother the wide world over...
- George Cooper

David with his mother, Maria, whose love, faith, trust, and support made his tribute possible...







"It is a curious fact that people are never so trivial as when they take themselves seriously..."
- Oscar Wilde







"We all went out to eat at Golden Corral just before David deployed. I'll never forget that night becuase he sniffed vanilla ice cream through a straw... it was hilarious. I remember for about the next hour he (David) said over and over "my nose is cold, and I smell vanilla"... and you could not have traded the look on his face for a million dollars..."
- Denisha Seiter

David, Denisha Seiter, and Michael Watson







Out of the ruins of a broken relationship came a ray of sunshine...



Top photo - Maria holding Issabelle
Bottom photo - David and Issabelle







"If there is love, there is hope to have real families, real BROTHERHOOD, real equanimity, real peace. If the love within your mind is lost, if you continue to see other beings as enemies, then no matter how much knowledge or education you have, no matter how much material progress is made, only suffering and confusion will ensue..." - Dalai Lama

Joseph Mixson, David, and Kurtiss Baumgartner







"Whatever they grow up to be, they are still our children, and the one most important of all the things we can give to them is unconditional love. Not a love that depends on anything at all except that they are our children..."
- Rosaleen Dickson

Left to Right: Joseph (David's brother), Maria (David's mother), David, Matthew (David's brother), and Rachael (David's sister)







Berlongieri and Lane were going to open a truck stop together when they got out of the Army. It was going to be called “Berlane’s,” a fusion of their last names. They had even made T-shirts, committing themselves to the business endeavor...
- Stars and Stripes, Mideast edition, Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Joshua Berlongieri and David...







"I am, indeed, a king, because I know how to rule myself..." - Pietro Aretino







"Life is a process. We are a process. The universe is a process..." - Anne Wilson Schaef







"My own little rule was two for one. If one of my teammates got knocked down, then I knocked down two on the other team..."
Don Drysdale, Hall of Fame Pitcher







When I count my blessings, the greatest of my joys,
Our parents gave us siblings, instead of rooms of toys...

Rachael, David, Joseph, and Matthew







A boy is the only thing that God can use to make a man...







Dream on, little Broomstick Cowboy, of rocket ships and Mars;
Of sunny days, Willie Mays, and chocolate candy bars,
Dream on, little Broomstick Cowboy, dream while you can;
Of big green frogs, puppy dogs, and castles in the sand...



For, all too soon you'll awaken; Your toys will all be gone,
Your broomstick horse will ride away, to find another home,
And you'll have grown into a man, with cowboys of your own,
And then you'll have to go to war, to try and save your home...








The Big Red One

The insignia of the 1st Infantry Division originated in World War I. There are two theories as to how the idea of the patch came about.

The first theory states that the 1st Division supply trucks were manufactured in England. To make sure the 1st Division's trucks were not confused with other allies, the drivers would paint a huge "1" on the side of each truck. Later, the division engineers would go even farther and put a red number one on their sleeves.

A second theory also exists. In this theory, a general of the division decided the unit should have a shoulder insignia. He decided to cut a red numeral "1" from his flannel underwear. When he showed his prototype to his men, one Lieutenant said, "the General's underwear is showing!" Offended, the General challenged the young Lieutenant to come up with something better. So, the young officer cut a piece of gray cloth from the uniform of a captured soldier, and placed the red "1" on top

The 1st Infantry Division unit patch







"A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her..."
- David Brinkley

David, in his own confident way, telling the world he's in The Big Red One !







A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are...

Kayla, David, Kathleen







"A young man's story is the best that is ever told..." - Charles Dickens







"Humor is one of the most serious tools we have for dealing with impossible situations..."
- Erica Jong

David and his sister, Rachael







The bravest are surely those who have the clearest vision of what is before them, glory and danger alike, and yet notwithstanding, go out to meet it...







The flag is folded and is then presented to next of kin, "As a representative of the United States Army, it is my high privilege to present you this flag. Let it be a symbol of the grateful appreciation this nation feels for the distinguished service rendered to our country and our flag by your loved one..."

David's mother, Maria, is presened with the US flag, Forest Hill Cemetary September 13, 2007 in Emporia, Kansas...







Don't ever waste your youth on growing up...







"To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting..." - E.E. Cummings







"Boyhood is a most complex and incomprehensible thing. Even when one has been through it, one does not understand what it was. A man can never quite understand a boy, even when he has been the boy..." - G. K. Chesterton

Rachael, David, Joseph, and Matthew







"Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose..." - Tennessee Williams

David and Denisha






"David was my best friend, one I could turn to for everything. He was a great man and I think of him morning, noon, and night. David is my hero and I believe he watches over me. I miss him so much. RIP David.
Maria... I love you like you were my own mom! He is in a better place now and someday we will meet again..." - Denisha Seiter - Emporia, Kansas

Denisha Seiter and Michael Watson, lay roses on David's casket after the funeral service...







"Boys do not grow up gradually. They move forward in spurts like the hands of clocks in an airport..." - Cyril Connolly

Matthew, David, and Joseph







"I was irrevocably betrothed to laughter, the sound of which has always seemed to me the most civilised music in the world..."
- Peter Ustinov







The strong do what they have to do and the weak accept what they have to accept...
- Thucydides of Greece







"The best things in life are silly..." - Scott Adams







"For every man the world is as fresh as it was at the first day, And as full of untold novelties for him who has the eyes to see them..." - Thomas Henry Huxley







"Valor is stability, not of legs and arms, but of courage and the soul..."
- Michel de Montaigne







Since the Revolutionary War, soldiers have dedicated their lives to protecting and maintaining the pride in the U.S., and they are very important to us. We must remember that, although many soldiers did not make it through war, they are veterans, nonetheless. They deserve to be honored as much as anyone who survived.

There is not enough stone in the world to commemorate their sacrifices; not enough emotion in the world to feel what they felt, as many of them saw their human brethren give the ultimate sacrifice - their lives....

- taken from "Soldiers - Past and Present" an essay by Christopher Vincent - Milltown, NJ







Thank you for visiting the David J. Lane Website

God Bless You

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Hearts of America, Care Packages for Military
Moms of Military - Prayer and Support Group
The Fallen Heroes Memorial website
The Military Times "Faces of Valor" website (List of US Casualties)
Patriot Guard Riders website
CNN iwatch - Support to Troops
Operation Iraqi Freedom
War in Afghanistan 2001 - Present